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Bad Boys Become Bad Men?

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Many women are attracted to bad boys, thinking that when they grow up, they will become good men. They think once bad boys settle down, their ways will change for the better. This is not always so. Bad boys often grow up to be bad man. Sure, a bad boy can eventually settle down, get married, and have kids. Does that mean he then morphs into a good husband, good father, and good provider? No. Not everyone changes for the better, especially when it is more likely they will change for the worse. Why take the risk on bad boys in the hopes that someday they will become good men? Is it because we think our love can change them, and all they need is the support and influence of a good woman? Good women do not always become the “savior” of bad men, they more often become the victim of bad men.

Bad Boys Become Bad Men?

Bad Boys Become Bad Men?

Many women think that bad boys will become good men for the right woman. When the right woman comes along he will magically transform into Prince Charming and not want to do all the things he did before she showed up. This myth needs to be put to rest once and for all. Sure, some bad boys may, with time, or with the right woman, become good men. But the chance for a bad boy to remain a bad boy, no matter how old he gets and how many perfect women he meets, is pretty much the same. The risk, and the odds, really are not in your favor.

Women want good men to marry, have children with, and grow old with. So why are they banking on the fact that the bad boys they are head over heels with will one day become good men? Why not just find a good man to begin with?

A typical bad boy is self-assured, has a huge ego, and basically acts like he is God’s gift to women. He is selfish, immature, and irresponsible. They treat women badly, use them for sex, and do not care about hurting someone’s feelings. No one else is important, because the only person they care about is themselves. This sound like the ingredients to make a good man? I wouldn’t even want a guy like this as my son, let along my boyfriend or husband.

Ladies, if you want a good man, steer clear of the bad boys. Don’t make them your project, don’t believe your love can change them, and don’t waste your time. Find a man who has what you want in a partner NOW. Don’t leave it up to chance to see what he could be, or what you hope he can be. If he is not good enough for you NOW, chances are this bad boy will be even worse for you later.


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Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.


  1. Tammy

    March 17, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    I tried to date a bad boy once, it was just so exhausting. NEver again.

  2. allison

    April 2, 2015 at 2:05 pm

    yup, good advice!

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