Love Life Coaching

Do You Really Know What You Mean to Him?

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I have heard from a lot of women who tell me the man in their life has problems expressing himself emotionally, but they know he really cares for them deep down. I make “puzzled face” when I hear statements like this. Who cares how he feels deep down? If, on the surface, he treats you like he doesn’t care, then why should it matter what he feels “deep down”? What good is “deep down” anyway? If you have to dig and search and seek for his feelings, does it really matter if he has any?


Day-to-day life gives all of us ample opportunity to show people we care about them, so why should they have to guess? The real question is how do you really know anyway how he feels deep down about you? If he won’t say it or do things to show it, are you sure you are not fooling yourself? And, if he is saying and doing the opposite of what you think he feels “deep down”, why do you even care what he feels deep down? You are being treated like shit daily, yet you should take comfort in what he feels deep down? Come on.


Is this “deep down” simply an excuse used to stay with people who emotionally or behaviorally give us next to nothing in return for all we give them? Why do we not see the facts, which are that they do not show and express love, and instead focus on the mysterious, hidden “deep down” feelings? Is there a point to it? Will those deep down feelings ever surface? If they have not yet, why should you think they ever will? If someone cannot show you or express to you that they care about you, why are you choosing to stay with an emotionally unavailable person?



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Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

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