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Has Your Ex Lost All His Feelings For You?

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Has your ex lost all his feelings for you? Are you worried the longer you are apart, the less feelings your ex will still have for you? So many people contact us worried that their ex has lost all his feelings. They feel something must happen now or they will lose all their feelings and it will be too late.

Now it does stand to reason that if you and your ex broke up a decade (or more) ago chances are high that they have lost all their feelings for you. But the idea that after a few weeks or months that someone will have lost all his feelings for you is ludicrous. Feelings are not lost in short periods of time. No one has the ability to lose all feelings they had for someone very quickly. It takes a long, long time to really lose all feelings for a person.

Has Your Ex Lost All His Feelings For You?

Has Your Ex Lost All His Feelings For You?

There is no quick fix, no pill, only time. So many women worry that their ex can lose feelings for them right away, which isn’t true. Sure, they can date other people or get involved with someone else quickly, but that doesn’t mean they have lost all their feelings for you. This is why so many women make the mistake of getting involved with a guy shortly after a break up. If he hasn’t had time to lose the feelings he had for his ex, there is a good chance he will leave you to go back with her. No matter how horrible he told you things were with his ex, or all the terrible things he says about her. If he has not had the time needed to lose his feelings for his ex, there is a good chance they will get back together.

Your ex can act like he has lost all his feelings for you but that doesn’t make it true. Just like he could act like he is Captain Kirk, acting isn’t reality. Think about it. You could have an ex that cheated on you, treated you dreadfully, lied all the time, and didn’t have time for you. Were you able to lose all your feelings for them quickly thanks to all of that? No. It will take time, and not a few short weeks or months. So why would you believe your ex has lost all feelings for you quickly? He is not an alien, or possess special powers. He is human, just like the rest of us. If he ran to another woman, or is acting like you don’t exist, that doesn’t mean he is really emotionally available to anyone else.

Now if a person has been in a relationship and emotionally distancing themselves throughout the relationship, that is another story. Had your ex has been telling you for a long time he isn’t happy or is confused about his feelings? Had your ex been telling you if you keep doing what you are doing you will push him too far? Has he been emotionally or sexually distant for a long time? In cases like that, your ex may have been losing his feelings for you during your relationship. So when you break up, he is way ahead of you. It may seem like he lost all his feelings for you quickly, but it wasn’t. Your ex lost a lot of his feelings (or all of his feelings) before you even broke up.

The only way your ex could lose all his feelings for you in a short amount of time is if he never really had them in the first place. If he said and did all the right things in the beginning, and talked about your future and you believed you really had a connection and he shut off like a light switch then you were conned.

Make no mistake there are plenty of guys who like the beginning, creating a fantasy, having someone fall for them, only to disappear without a trace. Why? Because they never planned on sticking around. Sure, they acted like they would. They told you they would. They told you all kinds of things. But they lied. You can convince yourself that they really meant everything they said and did, but you were conned. Happens all the time. The only way feelings can disappear quickly is if they never really existed.

So, if you are worried your ex lost all his feelings for you after a few weeks, relax. It is going to take a lot longer than that to get over you.

Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

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