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How Many Chances Should You Give a Guy Before You End a Relationship?

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Should you give him another chance after what he said or what he did? It really does depend on what you are giving him another chance at. It is reasonable to give him a few chances to remember to put the toilet seat down because it is not a major offense like having an affair. The key word is reasonable. If a man constantly lies about where he is and you keep catching him, if you don’t end the relationship, you have basically accepted the behavior and it becomes a part of your relationship.

 

 

How Many Chances Should You Give a Guy Before You End a Relationship

How Many Chances Should You Give a Guy Before You End a Relationship

Relationships should have set, permanent boundaries, not temporary ones. If you do not want to be with a man who lies all the time, then end your relationship with the man who is lying to you all the time. When people knows they can get away with something, not only will they do it, but they doesn’t fear the consequences of doing it. Why? Because there are none. (And please don’t think you yelling or getting pissed is a consequence to them, it really isn’t. It is a consequence to you. YOU go through those emotions. They do not. You cannot say you won’t tolerate a man who cheats on you and stay with a man who continues to cheat on you. You obviously tolerate it, and he knows it. Think he will do it again? Better question to ask yourself would be “Why wouldn’t he?” 

 


Most people believe in second chances. They want to hope they would be given a second chance if they screwed up, and I understand that. It is one thing to screw in a minor way and hope or feel you deserve a second chance. It is another thing to think you can do something that will end a relationship and get a second chance. The things that end relationships are serious and in many cases you won’t get a second chance. Do they really deserve a second chance when they cheated on you? That is up to the individual. No one deserves a second chance if they physically abused you in any way shape or form. So how many chances should you give him? Chances are, if you are reading this article, you already gave him too many.

 

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Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

6 Comments

  1. Betty

    June 25, 2015 at 10:39 am

    I know I gave my ex too many chances, and he blew them all!

    • Shakeil

      August 30, 2016 at 4:59 am

      What if my gf broke up with me got with another man then we got back together for a month and we broke up again because I messaged an ex how has she been on Instagram . And she left to another dude , downgrade

      • Sarah Adelle

        Sarah Adelle

        August 30, 2016 at 3:27 pm

        You gave this relationship enough chances, find one that works.

  2. talia nelson

    September 3, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    my boyfriend and i have been on a one week break that i initiated because he was liking another girl and hiding it from me. after that break, we were fine for 3 months and then he broke up with me because he felt my friends were more important. i balance the time i spend with him and my friends properly and i even give him more of my time, but my friends were there first and i wont kick them to the side. that’s why he broke up with me. the next day, he called asking me to take him back. what should i do?

  3. Tay

    June 23, 2017 at 7:04 am

    What about if he said he could go on a date for the third time and the night before canceled it because he remembered he had something to do?

    • Sarah Adelle

      Sarah Adelle

      June 23, 2017 at 2:49 pm

      3 strikes and he is out. Why bother at this point?

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