Love Life Coaching

Sabotaging Your Relationship

By  |  0 Comments

There are many ways of sabotaging your relationship. What may seem little to you, over time, becomes enormous to someone else. If you do not make some changes in your relationship it may be over before you know it. Don’t be surprised if one day, the one you love has had enough and checks out. By then, they have already make up their mind and have emotionally distanced themselves from you. At that time, no amount of begging, pleading, or crying will be enough to get another chance. Even promising to make changes may fall short.

 

They have come to believe that you are never going to change. They believe that if you really loved them, you wouldn’t have been sabotaging the relationship for this long. They feel they shouldn’t have had to wait this long for you to be a better partner. So what could you be doing that is sabotaging your relationship?

 

relationship sabotage

Sabotaging Your Relationship

If you are being too critical, and always nit-picking about every little thing, you are sabotaging your relationship. After a while, you become unpleasant to be around. Little by little, your sabotaging is getting on their nerves, and not making them feel warm and fuzzy towards you. If you are too demanding, that can get old after a while too. When someone feels they are living their life to serve you, resentment builds up. They get tired of your constant demands and wonder when it will stop. When they believe it never will, they call it quits.

 

Another way of sabotaging your relationship would be moving way too fast. It may seem romantic and perfect at first. Both of you are all caught up in emotion and your brains have left the building. The time you are spending with one another is causing problems in the rest of your life. When you both come up for air you mind suddenly clears and you wonder what the heck happened. Quite often someone ends the whirlwind relationship, never to be heard from again. So take it slow, and have the common sense to slow it down before it burns itself out. If it really is a good match, slowing it down won’t hurt anything.

 

If you allow baggage from the past into your current relationship, you are committing relationship sabotage. Of course you shouldn’t give your trust away without someone earning it, that is smart. But it is stupid to punish your current love because of things your ex did or said. Your current relationship partner is not here to fix your past. That’s your job. They fix theirs, you fix yours. If you don’t, you will be letting your past sabotage your future happiness.

 

Another way of sabotaging would be taking trust, insecurity or abandonment issues too far. We all have fears, that is normal. It is not normal to manifest those fears by making those issues intolerable and over the top. Their comes a point in a relationship where you must decide to trust them and let go of your insecurity and abandonment issues and take the risk. You can’t prolong it with excuses for your behavior and words. All you are doing is setting you, and the relationship, up for failure.

 

It is easy to sabotage a relationship, even unknowingly. So be careful and conscious of how your actions are affecting your relationship.

Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

All original content on these pages is fingerprinted and certified by Digiprove
error: Content is protected !!