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Signs of a Selfish Romantic Partner

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What are the signs that your loved one is selfish? Sometimes it may be hard to tell if the one you love is being selfish, especially when they point the finger back at you. How can you tell if the one you love is selfish?

Signs of a Selfish Romantic Partner

1. One of the important signs that your loved one is selfish is that the scales are tipped always in their favor. You wind up doing 100 things they want, for every one time you two get to do something you want. They demand so much from you, and have expectations of you that are sometimes too high to reach. But your expectations of them are way, way down there. They want support, comfort, advice, and help from you. They also expect you to always be there for them. When you need support, comfort, advice or help from them? You are on your own.

2. If your loved on is manipulative in order to get their way with you, they are selfish. For them it is all about their agenda, and they don’t care what you think, feel, or want. They are so busy playing games where their main goal is winning, no matter the cost. They will use guilt, be passive aggressive or use any manipulative tactic to get what they want.

Signs of a Selfish Romantic Partner

       Signs of a Selfish Romantic Partner

3. If your loved one won’t apologize when they are wrong, or make amends when they screwed up, they are selfish. They don’t want to put forth the effort to fix things or to make you feel better. Why should they? Why not leave it up to you to apologize and let you be the peacemaker even though you are not at fault? A truly selfish person puts their ego first and refuses to fix their own messes. They feel that is your job.

4. If the one you love doesn’t share but expects you to, they are selfish. If they think they have a right to take from you but never give to you, they are being selfish. For instance, you buy a gallon of your loved ones ice cream for them and the first thing they do is get out one bowl for themselves, and don’t even ask you if you would like some. A selfish loved one would also never think of coming home with ice cream for you, unless they liked it too, or got some for themselves. If there is nothing in it for them, then it won’t even cross their minds.

5. Another sign your loved on is selfish is if they are a control freak. They want to make all the decisions, no matter what the subject. There is no input needed from you, it is only up to them. They don’t want to compromise, they don’t care if they aren’t being fair. Your relationship is not a democracy, but a fascist dictatorship.

6. Another sign the one you love is selfish is they never pitch in to help you. They would never think to get up off the couch and help you put the laundry away. (Even if it is their laundry) Now when they have to do something they don’t want to do, they expect (or ask) you to pitch in to help them, and if you don’t, they will be pissed off.

7. A sign your loved one is selfish is that want you to pull your weight in the relationship but they don’t. The things that are their “tasks” they never seem to get around to. You do the laundry, cook dinner, dust, and do the vacuuming. They are supposed to take out the trash and wash the car. Your chores get done, but theirs require you nagging them to get it done because if you don’t, they never will get done. Of course they then get mad at you for nagging them all the time.

8. If your loved one sulks or causes major drama every time they don’t get their way, that’s a sign they are selfish. We cannot rationally expect to get our way all the time. If we love someone we want them to get their way and be happy sometimes. Not selfish people. They want their way all the time, and if they don’t get it, they will make sure you don’t have a good time.

9. If your loved one acts and believes that the world revolves around them, they are a selfish person. When no one else’s feelings but their are important, they are self-centered. Selfish people like this don’t care how their actions are affecting you, because it is all about them. They are the only people who matter.

If you are involved in a relationship with a selfish person, it is time to stop catering to them. Since they are not making you more important in your relationship, it is up to you to stop tolerating it.

Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

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