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Value and Price: Does He Value You or is Your Price Too Low?

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Does he value you, or through your own actions have you set your price too low? Look at all the things you do for your significant other. Look at the way you treat them, speak to them, and all the ways you show them you love them. You clearly show them what you they are worth to you, but now look at how much they value you.


Look at how much they seem to value you, and could it be that you set your price too low? No one should be so high maintenance that no one can really “afford” them, but the price they pay to have your in their lives and get all you have to offer should not be too low either.


Have they put you in the bargain bin, or have you done that to yourself? If you constantly do for others, yet they won’t lift a finger when you ask for help, then they do not value what you do for them. If they did, they would be happy to show their appreciation. If they take for granted all that you do, it has no value to them. If they feel entitled to take from you and not be appreciative of it, what you are giving really has no value either. If they keep doing things that could risk losing you they are again showing that they do not value the relationship. Why would you stay in a relationship where all you give and all that you are is of zero worth to the other person?

 

Value and Price: Does He Value You or is Your Price Too Low?

Does He Value You or is Your Price Too Low?

Bottom line? You shouldn’t. Everyone has value, and everyone has something to give of themselves that should be appreciated. Why keep giving to someone that won’t see the value in what you have to offer? Paying you back does not mean monetarily. We all give of ourselves to show love, and that we care about someone. It can be with kind words, thoughtful gestures, and staying within the appropriate boundaries so the relationship will continue. If you love someone, you give freely. So why aren’t they giving in return?


Have you dropped your price so low that they feel no “repayment” is necessary?


Have you kept giving to the wrong people, and the less they gave in return, the more you gave them? Every time you did that, your price was reduced. Did you allow someone to cross the line over and over and allow them to trash your relationship (or risk it ending) and you just erased the lines and let them get away with it? When you do that, you lower your price by leaps and bounds. Are you sharing the one you love with someone else? The second you entered into a relationship like that you already cut your price in half, and the longer you are in it, the more your price is lowered at an alarming rate. Have you allowed someone to call you names, or “punish you” because they were upset? Did you forgive them easily? Did they even say they were sorry? Do they keep doing it over and over again? Blue light special alert — you are getting cheaper by the minute.


It is time you raised your “price”. It is not worth it for you to invest in a relationship with no “payback” of some kind. If they are clueless as to your real worth, it isworth it to you to find someone who sees your true value. Think of all the things you do, how loving you are, the support you give, and how much you give to a relationship. That is EXACTLY what you should be getting back. If you are not, it is time to find another relationship to invest in, and to cut your losses on your present one. Your price will not be raised in your current situation at this point, unless you do it. It is up to you to set your value, and to make sure others recognize your worth. If they do not, they are WORTHLESS to YOU.

Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

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