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You Caught Him Red-Handed Now What Will You Do About it?

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You caught him cheating, now what are you going to do? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it.

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You Caught Him Red Handed

If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something:

  • Having an affair
  • Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with
  • Flirting with other women via text message
  • Talking to an ex
  • Lying repeatedly
  • Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site
  • Bad-mouthing you to other people
  • Giving his number to other women
  • Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it
  • Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you

If you don’t do something drastic his behavior will get worse.

You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. He is in control, and it is going to get out of control and out of hand very quickly. It is very clear he has zero respect for you! YOU need to nip this in the bud. You need to give him the boot, tell him why, and let him know that no one will get away with doing that to you.
The items listed above are reasons people break up. He knew that when he did it, he just didn’t think he would get caught. He risked losing you and ruining what you have because he either does not care, or didn’t think he was going to have to pay the consequences. Now you need to make him face those consequences. And not for a day, it should be forever.

Even if you want to live in Fairytale-land and think this could change him, you still have to take a stand and give him the boot, even temporarily, or he won’t change.
If you just yell, tell him you are hurt, express your anger, etc it won’t really affect him. What you did is just let him know he can do those things to you and get away with them.

So then why would he not do those same things again? He will do those things again, and again, and again. Sound like fun? Didn’t think so. So, what are you going to do about it?


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Sarah Adelle

Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.


  1. Tammy

    March 20, 2015 at 9:31 pm

    Been there done that!

  2. Eponda

    June 4, 2017 at 2:30 pm

    What it means why a man don’t want to lose you you you all he got. What does that mean

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