Category: Affairs

Friends With Benefits Is An Oxymoron

Friends with Benefits

Friends with benefits is an oxymoron. Exactly what benefits do you have in a situation like this? You don’t have the benefit of being long-term friends, because the sex almost always gets in the way. You get sex, but with none of the benefits of having sex in an intimate, monogamous relationship. There are some,…

Will He Leave Her? (His Wife or Girlfriend)

will he leave her

You are interested in someone who has someone else in their life and wonder will he leave her. What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits…

The Affair is Over – Do You Tell His Wife / Girlfriend?

The Affair is Over - Do You Tell His Wife / Girlfriend?

If your affair or relationship with a married man is over, should you tell his wife or girlfriend that you and he had an affair? The answer is not the same one-size-fits-all. It depends on the situation and your reasons for wanting to tell her. Let’s say you were dating (and being intimate) with a man…

The Truth is Liars Lie Again and Again

Are you dealing with a liar? Why are people surprised that someone who lied to them before, lied to them again? In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say “I’m fine”. Those are not the kind of lies we are talking about.…