Category: Friends with Benefits

You Can’t Always Get What You Want in Love

You Can't Always Get What You Want in Love

When it comes to love, it is just like the Rolling Stones song says: You can’t always get what you want. The other person has a vote too, and if they don’t love you, want to be with you, or stay with you, you are out of luck. Many women, and men, seem to think there…

Relationship Risks

Relationship Risks

Relationships are a gamble, and you want to place your bet on the ones that have the best chance of surviving. Too many women focus on the wrong risk. They think if they don’t try, they will lose the guy, and risk the chance of losing love and a great relationship. That is the wrong way…

Does Your Relationship Have an Expiration Date?

relationships that expire

I use the term “milk carton relationships” to describe relationships that come with an expiration date. When you buy milk, there is a date stamped on it that let’s you know that after a certain date your milk will expire. There are some relationships that are just like milk cartons, and have an expiration date…

It’s Complicated Really Means It’s Dysfunctional

It's Complicated Really is Means It's Dysfunctional

A complicated relationship is a dysfunctional relationship. Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth.…

Disposable Relationships

Disposable relationships

It may come as a shock to people, but there is such a thing as disposable relationships. Not everyone chooses to enter into a relationship because they think it can develop into something. Quite the contrary. Many people choose to enter into relationships they know are going NOWHERE. These relationships are disposable relationships. People often…