So many women ask us “How does he feel about me?” How come you don’t know how he feels? Is it because the relationship is too new for him to really have feelings? Is that why he doesn’t express them? Is he sending you mixed signals, where one day he says something and then another day he says the exact opposite for no good reason at all?
Does he say wonderful romantic things and make promises for the future but then his actions create contradictions? Does he show you and tell you that he cares and has strong feelings for you but for some reason your own insecurity issues won’t let you believe it? Is it you, or is it him?
Do you find yourself never really feeling secure about how he feels? Are you insecure for good reason? Are you asking for too much? Are you insecure for no good reason at all or from a past relationship? Does he do things other women would swoon for and wish they had but it is not enough for you? Does he refuse to express how he feels, either because it is not his style or for some other reason? Does he go out of his way to show you he doesn’t care about you? Could he be hiding his real feelings from you on purpose? How can you tell how a man really feels about you?
A good place to start would be to compose a list of the things he does and says that make you believe he has strong positive feelings for you. Then make a list of the things he does and says that make you feel he does not care about or love you. Which list is longer? Which things occur more often?
Your emotions can often cloud your judgment, but putting the facts on paper can really help you to face the reality of your situation, and see just how good/bad it is. We will be posting a blog with a follow up, for you to “grade” your own relationship.
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