Pity is Never Pretty

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Pity is never pretty and makes you even more unattractive to him. You and your significant other have broken up for what seems like the last time. It looks as though it is truly over and he has closed the door. But what if the woman doesn’t feel the same way? What if she wants more than…

If You Want Him Back.. Do NOT do THIS!

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Your relationship is over and you feel devastated and you want him back. You can’t eat, sleep, think, and cannot stop crying. You don’t feel like doing anything, and all you find yourself doing is obsessing about your ex. You want him back. You need him back. You cannot live without him.Ok, we get it. Now,…

Are YOU in an Abusive Relationship?

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There are many signs that indicate we are in abusive relationships, but often we fail to see them.  Many people think abusive relationships are only those that contain physical violence. Not true. Your partner is abusive when they try to erode your self worth and confidence, such as when they: … Constantly attempt to humiliate you in…

Cinderella Has Her Prince — Now What?

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The fairytales we read in our childhood, Cinderella and Snow White for example, end when the courtship ends and marriage or a serious relationship begins. Isn’t that quite often when the fairytale ends in real life as well? We cannot expect to never have a fight or win every argument. How a couple fights is…

Relationship Compatibility: Are you Apples and Oranges?

Relationship compatibility can be a difficult thing especially if the two of you are like apples and oranges. Let’s talk about fruit salad for a moment. Fruit salad is a wonderful thing. It is a mixture of many tastes. Eating the same fruit over and over again gets boring. Sometimes our differences can actually compliment…

What is Your Relationship Costing You? Is it Worth it?

Is your relationship costing you? Is your relationship costing you time, effort or energy? If you worked really hard at a demanding job and felt you were giving it 100% yet at the end of the week your boss told you had to wait for your pay, what would you do? Would you demand your…

Cinderella: Some Day my Prince will Come…

  Peter Pan and Cinderella are both very popular fairy tales whose themes have been turned into television shows, movies, and are integrated into our culture. The problem is that too many people believe that fairy tales can come true. They can come true, but so can the worst of nightmares. Pretty Woman, the movie starring Julia Roberts…

Office Crush: Go For it or Avoid it?

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Have you ever had an office crush, or do you have an office crush right now? There could be a woman or a man at your job that you find very attractive. You enjoy working with them, joking with them, and even flirting with them. It seems like they like you, but nothing has happened…

Closure: Do You REALLY Want It or Do You Want to Obsess?

Closure: Do You REALLY Want It or Do You Want to Obsess?

So many women say they want closure yet have a hard time finding it. They wonder why they can’t free themselves from thoughts and emotions regarding their exes. They say they don’t want to think about their ex-boyfriend or ex-husband but their minds always seem to drift in that direction. They can’t sleep at all because…

Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean

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When it comes to your relationship it is crucial that you mean what you say and say what you mean. Okay, so he pissed you off because he hasn’t called when he said he would. Understandable. Perhaps you are furious over the fact that he promised to see more of you but you are actually…

Why Doesn’t He…? The Real Question is WHY DO YOU?

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“Why doesn’t he…” seems to be the eternal question many women complain to their friends about when it comes to relationships and their guy. Why doesn’t he call more often? Why doesn’t he tell me how he feels about me? Why doesn’t he do things with me? Why doesn’t he invite me over to his place?…

All Relationships are Different

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All relationships are different, especially romantic relationships. It is not logical to think that all relationships will be the same or even similar to your friend’s relationships. Let’s start with an example. You are sitting with your girlfriends discussing the latest thing that your boyfriend did to piss you off. You tell them how you…