Should You Give Someone Closure?

Should you give someone closure? Good question. First of all, you can’t give someone closure. They need to get closure for themselves. If an ex-boyfriend or husband contacts you looking for closure, there is a good chance they don’t really want it. Depending on how your relationship ended, unless you disappeared from the planet, they…

Are You Working on the Relationship but He Sleeps on the Job?

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Do you feel you are the only one working on the relationship while your romantic partner does nothing? No relationship, unless it is on tv, the movies, or in fantasyland doesn’t need work at some point or another. Women have a tendency to put 100% of themselves into “working on their relationship”. What women need…

Don’t Shoot the Messenger

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Sometimes you just want to shoot the messenger, even when that messenger is your friend. You have told your friends every gory detail about him. You told them he scratches his balls with your hairbrush. You told them he rates his farts on a scale of 1-10. Your friends stayed with you on your birthday when he…

Signs They ARE Interested in YOU!

You are looking for the signs that they are interested in you. You have found Mr. Or Miss “Right” or “the one”. Although you should be thrilled, you are upset because you have no idea if they are even interested in you at all! You begin to look for signs, or clues, as to whether…

Once an Asshole Always an Asshole

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If you are in a relationship with an asshole, unfortunately that is what he will be, because once an asshole, always an asshole. A friend of mine recently met a guy she thought had potential. On their first date, they had a wonderful dinner, drinks and conversation. There was chemistry, and she was on cloud nine,…

Tired of Being Second Choice? Do Something About it!

Are you tired of being second choice in your relationship? Do you complain that the man in your life always has so much to do that he has no time for you? Are you upset that everything else seems to be a major priority except spending time with you? Have you discussed it with him and…

REALLY Want CLOSURE or Just an Excuse for Staying Stuck

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So many people say they need closure after a relationship ends. You say you need closure when the truth is he treated you poorly when you were together. You had issues with him being unfaithful or not making a commitment. You always felt insecure and unsure of his feelings for you.You had issue after issue,…

If You Have to Stalk It’s Time to Walk

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Let’s face it, if you have to stalk, your romantic partner for whatever reason, it’s time to walk away from the relationship. If your boyfriend/husband/whatever suddenly has to work late for two weeks in a row and you get a bad feeling about it, by all means, drive by his office parking lot to make…

How to Trap a Man (It’s NOT what you think)

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This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces. Quite often women set men up for failure, and then get upset when they (the women) feel hurt, slighted, or unloved. Every woman…