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Signs He is Bad For You

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There are many signs and indicators that will allow you to see if someone is bad for you. When shopping for a new home we have to enter a prospective new home and begin to picture how our furniture and other items would fit into that home. We make mental changes in our heads to see how the home would look with our personalized touches.

signs he is bad for you

Signs He is Bad for You

Women also seem to do this a lot with men. They picture the man in their lives and how that man will improve with enough work, help, and guidance. These changes have a slim chance of actually happening, and the man has no clue these changes are required. Now the woman has in her head her man’s potential and how great the relationship could become. Unfortunately, she won’t let go of this illusion. She refuses to see that the guy is actually bad news and bad for her. Here are some signs to spot if a man is bad for you before you too get caught up in POTENTIAL instead of seeing reality.

1. Every reasonable boundary you create, he steps over.
2. He is already involved with one or more women.
3. His compliments (if he has any for you) always have a “but” attached to them. “You are a sexy woman, but why do you have to dress that way? You don’t need to do that.”
4. He has a bad opinion about women in general. He should be the president of the he-man-woman-haters club.
5. He keeps secrets, but your life better be an open book to him.
6. Your relationship status changes constantly.
7. He calls you nasty names, disrespects you and allows his friends and family to do the same.
8. When you have a fight he takes back everything he ever gave you.
9. He never calls or initiates plans, he leaves that up to you.
10. He makes fun of you in front of other people. When you get hurt he tells you it is just a joke and to not be such a baby. Then he gets mad at you because you don’t know how to “lighten up” and always take things too seriously.
11. He disappears for days, weeks, months and acts like it never happened, or that it is normal to do that to someone.
12. He is selfish in bed.
13. He is not financially independent, or independent in any way. He has no plans, only daydreams about becoming independent. He may bitch about having to rely on others, but does zero to change it.
14. He has an addiction or has only recently become sober. One of the rules of sobriety is to wait before getting into a relationship. If you don’t, chances are he won’t stay sober and you won’t stay in a relationship.
15. He wants to see you 24/7. Don’t take it as a compliment. It is about taking over your life. (This almost always burns out as fast as it started anyway)
16. He is too moody and his bad moods last way too long. (And he takes them out on you)
17. He has no time for a relationship. Which means he has no time for you.
18. He is at his ex’s beck and call.
19. He has children with many different women and is not really a father to any of them.
20. He tells you how to raise your own children, and gets mad when you do not listen.

If you see any of the warning signs that he is bad for you think twice before seeing him again or continuing on…….this is the guy you should leave, not stay and try to fix.


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Sarah is a Certified Relationship Life Coach and Soulmate ~ Twin Flame expert with 20+ years experience helping clients around the world live the life and have the relationship they desire. Sarah is here to empower you to see the truth in your situation, not enable you to remain in a place that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Sarah will lift you to see the reality of your situation, providing guidance to see you through it. She will also help you get control of your relationship, if it can be saved, so you have can the relationship you have hoped for. Sarah co-hosts two weekly radio shows, primarily geared toward relationship issues, called Empower Enlighten Envision on Weds nights on BlogTalkRadio as well as CBS NewSkyRadio.

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