You are looking for the signs that they are interested in you. You have found Mr. Or Miss “Right” or “the one”. Although you should be thrilled, you are upset because you have no idea if they are even interested in you at all! You begin to look for signs, or clues, as to whether or not this person is interested in you. A problem with that is there are no 100% certain signs, unless they are the most obvious ones, like asking you out right away. But even then, what does that prove?
Sure, they may be interested in you, but how, and for what? They could be interested in having a fling with you, they could be interested in you as a person, they could be interested in being just friends, or a booty call. You need to know not only are they interested in you, but what they are interested in you FOR.
Moving in on your personal space, like leaning in when you are talking or brushing their arm against yours are good signs they are interested, but is it more than just a sexual interest? You are interested in them, and you know what you are interested in them for. You may want a long term relationship with them, but they may just be attracted to you and want something physical. You need to know if the both of you share the same interest.
They may be interested in you but are already in a relationship and have no intentions of ending that relationship to be with you. They may just want something in addition to their relationship, like an affair or fling. They could be interested in you and do nothing about it. They could lose interest in you just as quickly as they got interested. People lose interest in things all the time, for a myriad of reasons. If they pay no attention to any other member of the opposite sex when you are around, many people would assume that they are really interested in only you. However, some people may be afraid to talk to you because they like and are interested in you, and can talk to other people more easily than they can talk to you. So that sign doesn’t always apply.
If they tell you jokes and show you their sense of humor and how funny they are, that could be a sign they are interested in you. It could also be that is just their personality and they act they way around everyone. What you need to find out is what the man or woman you are interested does, says, and how they act, think or feel about you specifically. You may be tempted to call them out on it, or break the ice yourself. But remember, there may be a good reason they have not acted on their interest, and if you act on yours first, the results can prove disastrous. The best way to proceed would be to be friendly, and get to know them and they you, so you can see if this interest should be pursued or not.
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