Tag: Friends with Benefits

He Wants to Have Sex With You, But not a Relationship

He Wants to Have Sex With You, Just not a Relationship

He wants to have sex with you. And has proven that over and over. He contacts you late at night asking to come over and it always leads to sex. As a matter of fact, every time you are together it always leads to sex. (With him taking the lead of course.) The chemistry between…

Emotional Logic: Dating and Relationships

Emotional logic

Emotional logic is an oxymoron. People tend to justify relationships they are in, trying to get in, or staying with for way too long by what we call “emotional logic”. This is when people justify their decisions in relationships with “logic” that makes zero sense. Rather than deal with their relationships the way real logic…

Disposable Relationships

Disposable relationships

It may come as a shock to people, but there is such a thing as disposable relationships. Not everyone chooses to enter into a relationship because they think it can develop into something. Quite the contrary. Many people choose to enter into relationships they know are going NOWHERE. These relationships are disposable relationships. People often…

Friends With Benefits Is An Oxymoron

Friends with Benefits

Friends with benefits is an oxymoron. Exactly what benefits do you have in a situation like this? You don’t have the benefit of being long-term friends, because the sex almost always gets in the way. You get sex, but with none of the benefits of having sex in an intimate, monogamous relationship. There are some,…